Several months ago, I boarded a plane in San Diego to return home, and found myself seated next to a sharp-looking, young man who was working on a laptop computer. Everything about him shouted successfrom his expensive, neatly pressed suit to the confident way he smiled and nodded when I sat down. I learned that he was the leading salesman in his company, and that he was on his way to make a presentation that could win another profitable account. I told him I was a pastor. He seemed eager to talk about his work, and since I had nowhere to go, I listened.
After several minutes, something he said prompted me to ask how long he had been married, and for the first time since I got on the plane, he hesitated to answerhis gaze falling to the floor. He looked up slowly and said, "Almost three years. My wife has cancer. She was diagnosed shortly after we were married, but she seemed to be doing fine until several weeks ago. That's when they found the cancer in her lungs."
Before we got off the plane, I asked the man if I could pray for him and his wife, and told him I would put their names in our prayer room to be lifted up daily by intercessors. I cannot begin to explain the peace that came over him. As I left the airport, my heart was burdened for this young couple and the battle they were facing, but I was equally troubled by something else he said. Although they been regularly attending a church there in San Diego since they were married, they had never received personal ministry through prayer!
Early one Sunday morning, not long after that, a lady walked into my office looking very troubled. She closed the door, sat down on the couch, and pulled a small handgun out of her purse. She had my full attention. She told me that she was extremely depressed, and that her situation was so bad she could find no reason to go on living. She said that she didn't really want to die, but she needed someone to give her hope. I was her last resort.
That lady was not interested in baking pies for a potluck supper or joining the United Methodist Women's group. And the man on the plane from San Diego probably didn't really care whether his church sprinkled or dunked. I doubt either one of them would have found much comfort in a sermon that outlined the Council of Bishops political views on immigration. What they both needed was to feel the love of Jesus from the tops of their heads to the soles of their feet.
Every Sunday, our churches are filled with people who are run over by life.
They wear a smile on their face to hide the hurt of marital problems, abusive
relationships, children who have turned away, financial failures, and terminal
illnesses. Our society is coming unraveled at the seamsplagued with
violence, crime, immorality, homelessness, and hopelessnessand we
all bear the scars. How tragic it is that broken people often pass through
our doors and receive nothing but a bulletin and a nice, three-point sermon!
They come to church week after week, desperately needing a touch from God,
and often leave in the same condition in which they arrived.
A House of Prayer
The day that Jesus, in righteous indignation, drove the money changers
and tax collectors from the temple, he was angry with what was taking place
there. But I believe he was just as displeased, if not more, with what was
not taking place there. I can just imagine Jesus approaching the
temple, stepping over the lame and the lepers, pushing his way through the
blind and the afflicted, all of whom had come hoping for a touch and a prayer,
but had received nothing. As he turned over the tables and drove out those
who were buying and selling, he said to them, "My house will be called
a house of prayer
." And as soon as Jesus had cleared the temple,
Matthew says, "The blind and the lame came to him
, and he healed
them" (Matt. 21:14). Jesus knew people needed a personal touch.
Engine or Spare Tire?
I believe a new prayer movement is sweeping the earth today, and part of
that movement involves prayer as a ministryboth within the body of
Christ and to unbelievers. Unfortunately, it is often the least organized
ministry in the local church, if it is considered a ministry at all. As
pastors and leaders, we can be guilty of leaving the prayer life of our
church up to chance, just hoping it will happen. But it doesn't have to
be that way. A prayer ministry can be like a good Sunday school program
or pledge campaign, with organization, goals, leadership, recruitment, training,
feedback, and results. We can set aside special places for it to happen,
and we can schedule time for it like we would any other priority ministry.
We can give it direction, meaning, and purpose. It doesn't have to be the
spare tire in the trunk that we turn to only in times of crisis; it can
be the engine that supplies all the power for us to move forward.
If we are trying to have an impact on our cities and communities for Jesus,
we must be relying on prayer to see results. Evangelistic efforts will be
fruitless unless they are preceded by and based on prayer for the lost.
It is important that we learn to pray for the felt needs of unbelievers
so that as those needs are met, we can point them to Jesus, their provider.
As Christians, we must find ways to pray with each other for the salvation
of our cities. This kind of organized prayer force must begin in the local
churches.
Conduits
It is the responsibility of pastors and church leaders to develop prayer
as a ministry within our congregation. We can invite God into our services
and be available to let him minister through us to those in need. We don't
have to produce anything ourselves, we just have to be "user friendly"
to God, and he will supply the power. With one hand on the need, and the
other extended to him, we can be conduits of God's love and mercy. But we
have to be willing to pray the price. We might even have to be willing to
stay past 12:00 noon and be persistent in prayer to see a breakthrough.
We can't just throw up 30-second prayers that end with, "if it be your
will
," and expect God to do miracles. We must learn how to pray
as long as it takes.
All across the nation, prayer with this kind of force is growing in the
form of 24-hour prayer rooms, prayer hotlines, schools of prayer, city-wide
concerts of prayer, altar prayer, and prayer-evangelism. One of the most
exciting programs I have seen in the area of prayer can be found at a church
in Phoenix, Arizona, where they have developed a full-scale college of prayer,
offering over 150 courses. The catalog lists requirements for a bachelor,
master, and doctor of philosophy degree in prayer. I consider this to be
on the cutting edge of the prayer movement, and in stark contrast to many
of our own denominational seminaries that do not offer one single course
in prayer! Also at the forefront is a Baptist church in Houston with a 24-hour
prayer hotline in the prayer room; Voice of Pentecost church in San Francisco,
which organizes prayer for every single home in the city; and a Church of
Christ in Pittsburgh that prays for hospital patients who do not list a
home church. These churches, and many others like them, are having an impact
on their cities and communities because they are finding meaningful ways
to minister through prayer.
Tissue Box Ministry
One sure sign of a church with a dynamic prayer ministry is an altar speckled
with tissue boxes. I see it in churches of all types and sizes, Methodist,
Baptist, Episcopal, Lutheran, Assemblies of God, charismatic, traditional,
big and smallgood prayer ministries begin at the altar where individual
needs can be lifted up. Personal ministry is the common denominator in praying
churches, because it must be learned and modeled within the church itself
before it can be turned outward.
At the church I once pastored in College Station, Texas, as well as in
many others that I visit, time is always set aside during the services for
people to receive individual prayer at the altar or in their seats. For
the man I met on the airplane, and to the lady who brought the handgun into
my office, this would be the most important ten minutes in the week. The
opportunity to share their pain with another believer, to be touched by
the Father, and to receive compassion and healing, would mean more to them
than the best sermon I could ever preach. We enlist laypeople who have a
heart for this kind of ministry to be conduits, and they are always on call
at the altar. During this time of personal prayer, I become a facilitator
and they become the ministers.
Altar Training
The success of altar ministry depends greatly on training. It is important
that the people doing the praying are "commissioned" by the pastor
to ensure that they are equipped for the task. Allowing someone who is not
spiritually mature enough or who has the wrong motives to pray with people
could do more harm than good. We use the following guidelines in our training
course for all altar workers:
Come to the altar at the leading of the pastor.
Men pray with men, women pray with women.
Listen for a direction to pray. Don't be shocked by what you hear.
Ask for permission to pray.
Pray Scriptures over the person.
Refer serious problems to the pastoral staff.
Take distressed people into a private place for prayer.
Have boxes of tissues available.
Encourage team praying when possible. While one is speaking, the other prays.
Make pertinent materials available for those prayed for.
Missing God
The burden of ministry in these churches is being taken off the pastor's
shoulders, and put on the body. For some, this is scary. Praying for others
involves listening to God, and we can become self-conscious and worried
about being wrong. But it is important to remember that we are not the power
supplywe are just the conducting agents. As I travel and speak to
pastors, leaders, and laypeople about prayer, I love to demonstrate this
principle during the seminar. After a time of teaching, I have the people
stand up and I pray for them. I then ask them to place their hand on the
person in front of them, praying the first thing that comes to mind. I even
ask them to pray out loud if they feel comfortable doing so. I conclude
by having each person find out what the partner prayed, and then we have
an informal time of sharing. It always amazes me how, in a room full of
strangers, many people testify that the person behind them prayed in a specific
manner for a real need in their lives! They allow themselves to become conduits
through which God pours out his love and grace. For some it is the first
time they have ever taken a chance on hearing Godallowing him to minister
through themand they are blessed as a result.
I always stress to the group that it's okay to "miss" God. He
is more interested in our availability than he is in our ability. I remember
when I was a young pastor, God spoke the word "shingles" to me
one Sunday morning during the service. I'm not very smart, but I'm reckless,
so I began to pray for all the roofers in the building to be saved. Nothing
happened. The following Sunday, God again spoke the word "shingles"
to me, and this time I prayed for one particular roofer in the church named
Bob. He wasn't there that day, but said later that he appreciated the prayer.
It finally occurred to me that I should pray for anyone with the medical
condition known as shingles, so I did. Still, no one came forward or acknowledged
that this word was for them. After the service was over, I felt discouraged
and a little silly. But then a young woman approached me apologizing. She
said she had been so stunned that God would single her out, that she was
too embarrassed to speak up during church. She shared that she had a rare
case of shingles that sometimes affects young people, and that the treatments
had not been working. I admit to being somewhat relieved that I had not
completely missed God's message.
Building A Ministry
Building a dynamic prayer ministry takes time, patience, and persistence.
Here are a few guidelines to keep in mind that will make your church more
effective in prayer:
Seek God for direction and timing, and pray for spiritual awakening. Realize that the Holy Spirit is the instigator of all prayer.
Find a "spark plug" to be your prayer coordinator. Choose leaders who have a vision for prayer and who will take ownership in the ministry.
Develop a statement of purpose and set realistic goals. Don't build in failure by setting expectations that are too high.
As you recruit people to pray, train them for the task. Teach them how to pray the Bible. Give them both feedback and appreciation for their time.
Make prayer a priority in the life of your church by preaching about it, offering classes on it, and modeling it wherever possible.
Stay current on what God is doing in other churches, across the nation, and around the world in the area of prayer. Read books on prayer and attend seminars and workshops.
Build prayer into existing ministries such as Sunday school, small groups, charity functions, special events, and outreach efforts.
Consider developing a special place for prayer that would be accessible 24 hours a day. Prayer rooms promote consistent, informed intercession.
Give your prayer ministry variety. Try to make sure that all members of your congregation can find a place to fit in where they will feel comfortable. Keep in mind that different people will be motivated for different kinds of prayer.
Plan prayer retreats for the leaders in the church. Allow time for the pastor and the staff time to go away regularly to pray.
Practice "term praying" by setting out clear starting points and ending points for all prayer efforts. Don't expect them to go on forever.
Find a special place to record the deeds of God in answer to prayer. This will encourage those who have prayed and will inspire others to get involved.
Expect obstacles! Satan will do all he can to stop you.
Back in the early Methodist camp meetings and revivals, the focal point of prayer was the "mourner's bench," from whence we get our modern-day altar rails. Accounts of these meetings indicate that believers spent much time kneeling at these rough benches praying for the lost to experience forgiveness, deliverance, and spiritual renewal. They prayed with expectancy, and received the seekers as they responded to the gospel. Over time, however, as the role of prayer seemed to dwindle, the mourner's benches evolved into a symbolic structure where perhaps communion was given or new members were greeted.
Today in many churches, altars are simply fences to keep me away from you and you away from me. Our churches would be much more effective if we could recapture the spirit of fervent prayer that once took place at the mourner's bench. John Wesley once said, "Prayer is a means of grace." As churches, let us be in the business of lavishing that grace on everyone we can reach.
Terry Teykl is a full-time prayer evangelist/teacher. He is well known for his books and seminars on prayer and its relationship to evangelism and church growth. Dr. Teykl is now developing the Prayer Center and Prayer Ministries for the 8, 000 member Windsor Village United Methodist Church in Houston, Texas. The senior pastor of the church is Kirbyjohn Caldwell.
This article was published in Good News magazine (March/April 1996).